The South African concept of ‘umbutu’ emphasises the mutual interdependences between human beings and how it is through our relationships with others, that we construct our sense of identity. It is a concept which underpins inclusive classroom practice across the Dr. Costa Matos school group in Vila Nova de Gaia in Portugal. Reflections from an educational psychologists who works in the school are shared in this podcast, which explores ‘Five Pillars’ for promoting children’s’ wellbeing and sense of community.